So today I called the clinic and made a tiny white lie. I told them that I experienced some bleeding over the weekend and wasn’t sure what to do.
I just wanted another blood test. I need to know how things are progressing. Especially since last time the numbers looked okay at the very beginning, but as we progressed they got worse. Just for comparison, in 2 days time was when the numbers only rose a little, and in 4 days time was when they dropped.
So the nurse spoke to me and told me that she would speak to Anne, my doctor, and get back to me.
About half an hour later she rings me and tells me that Anne wants to book a scan for TOMORROW or Thursday.
Um, does anyone remember how many times I had to ask for a scan last time before I got one? 4 times.
But this time, I call with some ‘bleeding issues’ and they throw a scan at me like that?
WITH NO BLOOD TEST?!
So I accepted the offer and booked a scan for tomorrow.
But as the day drew on, I got this pit in my stomach. What if something is wrong? What if we see nothing again like last time?
If we see nothing, she will probably send me off for another blood test, then I’m going to spend the day worrying, wondering if we saw nothing because there is nothing there, or if it’s because my levels aren’t high enough.
So I rang them back.
I asked if it would be possible to do the scan on Thursday and have a blood test tomorrow. I explained why, and how I am finding it much harder to relax this time round, and the nurse told me it shouldn’t be a problem but she would check with Anne and get back to me.
Well, 5 minutes later I got my pathology slip emailed to me and an appointment time for Thursday.
Wow.
So I’m excited and nervous to know what my numbers are.
At 17 dpo they were 216, so tomorrow (22dpo) they should be around 1300. That’s assuming they are doubling every 48 hours.
Ideally, I would like to see the number over 1500, but I don’t know if I’m getting my hopes up too high? My numbers have never risen at a high/fast rate so it’s unlikely they will be. I just want an indication that all is going well.
My test isn’t darker today. I’m not sure if they get any darker than this though? What is the darkest they get? So that there is only a super faint control line? Or perhaps this is it?
I still have a few more tests left, but I’m going to wait a few days to test again.
Symptoms? I need to pee a lot now a days. I’m also sooooo tired. Grumpy. No patience. Snappy. And craving lots of junk foods. I haven’t indulged yet but oh my god, all I want is like 700 bags of twisties and like, 29 blocks of chocolate.
I’m becoming more accepting of this possibly being a boy too. At the beginning, I was convinced this is a girl. But everyone, literally every person who knows, thinks it is a boy.
To be fair, the only people who know is my mum and dad, my reflexologist, and a close family friend.
But they all say boy.
At the beginning I was so dead against having a boy. I can’t even tell you why. Well, okay, maybe I have a small reason.
Boys scare me. Not the gender itself, but caring for a boy as a single mum. He won’t have a father role model and I don’t know if a boy needs that kind of thing. I’m not really educated on the subject. But with Scarlett, I figured a girl needs her mum, and here I am, so no issues.
I grew up without a ‘dad’ (although my biological uncle sort of took me on as his own in my later years, hence why I call him dad) and I’m fine. But my brother, who lived with my grandma growing up, never had a male figure and I think it sort of made him feel like he missed out on something important. He always got way too attached to my biological mums boyfriends and was devastated when they left. I feel like it took a big toll on him.
Which is why, when he turned 16, he sought out our biological father who hadn’t wanted anything to do with us for over 10 years, and tried to have a relationship with him.
It didn’t really work out, but to this day he still contacts him.
So I would feel nervous having a boy. I would love to kick the footy around with a boy and teach him manners and how to respect women, but by not giving him a dad, am I taking away a crucial part of his life?
I figure what happens, hsppens. If I was meant to have a boy, then that’s how it was meant to be. I won’t argue it and I’ll be so grateful. I just really hope I’m not setting him up for disaster before he’s even born.
Now, to end on a high note, here is my little cherub 😍